How to Remember Loved Ones
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I’ve been asked a few times lately for ideas about how to remember someone who died too young? How do we pass on their legacy, their personality, their character, to children who are too young to remember them?
So here are some ideas on how to remember loved ones that those still here can treasure.
Ideas to Remember Loved Ones
I appreciate friends who got a nice journal and asked people to write down stories for my Little Farmer. He was only four months old when his biological dad died. I appreciate the family and friends that wrote a story about Mark, a way that he interacted with them, a special memory, something that Henry can learn from, and see in himself when he is older. Pictures, memories and special belongings are the only things that we can give.
I know that it was difficult for most people to participate, but I’m truly grateful for those who did.
I’ve been blessed to have the opportunity to marry Joe. He comes from a large, loving family. Right around a year ago he lost his young, healthy, cousin to amniotic fluid embolism during the birth of her first child. Unfortunately I didn’t have the opportunity to get to know her very well, but she made a positive impression on me and I want to share that story with her son.
Here is a story that I will write in a journal and give to her family this holiday season. I’ve been praying for them, but I also want them to have a tangible reminder that she is not forgotten.
Dear William,
I am so grateful that I had the opportunity to meet your mom. Even though I didn’t know her well, she made a positive impression on me.
I come from a small family, so going with Joe to large family gatherings was a bit overwhelming at first. Your mom was one of the people that would always go out of her way and make a point to say “hi” to me. She always welcomed me with a warm, friendly smile.
The example and effort that she put into being warm and welcoming to strangers is what Jesus calls us to do. That’s how He asks us and shows us how to treat people. I’m so grateful you have a Christian foundation to build your life upon.
I understand that life isn’t fair and often doesn’t go as we expect that it should. I know that it will hurt to learn what you’ve lost, but my prayer for you is that you will focus on all that you have. You have a biological mother that really wanted you and loves you dearly. You have a family here on earth that loves you deeply. And most importantly you have a Father in heaven who loves you more than words can express. Put your faith in God and He will guide and help you as He has Henry and me.
Love,
Jennifer
Anything we can do to help grieving people keep or build their faith is so important.
Beautiful Jennifer!!